It’s fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure.
1. When you say you’re going to do something, do it.
2. Don’t lie, don’t exaggerate, don’t withhold information, don’t mislead.
3. Give people your full attention when you’re with them. Listening well is a hard skill to master – but it’s…
You don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent.
You exist, and therefore, you matter. You’re allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise.
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Reblogging for a friend- I’m a Sagittarius Hufflepuff (I just feel like I’d be a Hufflepuff 8D), and the optimism and cheerfulness are definitely spot on.
I didn’t wanna fall in love, not at all. But at some point you smiled, and, holy shit, I blew it
Are You Carrying Past Relationship Baggage?
We are all products of our past experiences and this includes our past relationships. Our exes help to shape our current outlook on relationships, and our experiences help us grow and move forward in life. But, more often than not, we end up carrying around baggage from past relationships that can be harmful as we try to move on with other people. Here are some of the ways that our past relationship baggage can be holding us back:
- You can’t trust. If you’ve been betrayed in a past relationship then you know how much it hurts, and you’ll do anything to prevent it from happening again. To protect ourselves, we can become guarded and closed-off, putting up walls around our feelings with new partners. If you’re not able to put your trust into a new partner you’ll never be able to move the relationship forward. Hanging on to old betrayal holds us back from moving on and being happy with someone new.
- You’re afraid to talk about your feelings. If you were punished in your last relationship for expressing your feelings then you’ll likely be reluctant to reveal them in a new relationship. Maybe your ex betrayed your trust or didn’t feel the same way, and the trauma from those experiences can be damaging. Your current relationships will suffer if you aren’t able to open up and talk about your feelings because you don’t feel secure enough to do so.
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